Author of ‘How to Meet Women on the Internet’

Dear friend,

Have you been dating online and are frustrated with poor responses to your emails?
Or even worse, women not replying to your first emails at all? This is enough to make you give up isn’t it? Especially if you are recently divorced, split up and single. I know the feeling and have been there and felt the pain.

Well, I have good news for you because in this article I am giving away extremely valuable information for free. If you follow the steps I’m about to outline, you will have a
lot of success with online dating. These online dating tips will triple your response and dates on the internet dating sites. Let’s have a look at them. These tips are specific to the FIRST contact email.

Email Tip #One

You must state at the beginning of your email
that her profile stands out. E.g.
‘Hi Angel64, I’m Mick and I’m writing as you sound interesting to me and your profile stands out from the others.’ Then mention a few sentences of what you liked…without gushing or sucking up of course.
This will obviously please the lady and create her own interest in you. She will feel special and rightly so as you have chosen to contact her. She is the lucky one to get your attention.

Email Tip #Two

Be sure to mention and lightheartedly poke fun of something in her profile. E.g.
‘Do you really like Neil Diamond and ABBA?’
:-] [Just kidding]
Always put a smiley or [just kidding] in brackets so as not to offend. This says you are playful and not a soft guy that’s afraid to have some fun. She’ll appreciate your effort.

Email Tip #Three

Mention something specific in her profile that you found interesting. E.g.
‘So you worked in London for 12 months, I was there for two years…when were you there?’
This proves to her you have read her profile in
detail and have something in common. This creates repore and her interest immediately.

Email Tip #Four

Ask something of interest about her. E.g.
‘You said you do dance lessons, what style…is it salsa? How often do you get out to dance…I like the club down on East esplanade on Friday nights. They have a great Latin band and free lessons from 7pm until 8pm.’
This gives her a specific question to reply to.
Avoid questions that are mundane and common like, ‘What’s your favorite colour?’
Pick something she’s mentioned on her profile and ask her details on that…

Email Tip #Five

These tips are in sequence. Finish up and keep it brief. Four or Five paragraphs is enough. Don’t go on about yourself and spill your guts to her. Finish with a line that says something like this…
‘Why don’t we chat on the phone for a while and get to know each other. It saves time writing long emails… Here’s my number, Mick
02 47476534. I’m home after 6.30 and you’ll catch me in some time. Or here is my cell phone # 098975643.

Look forward to your reply…

Take care Angel64

Mick.’

There you have it. These are very helpful and valuable tips that will save you time, money and heartache… You will definitely get THREE times the replies and dates by using these tips!
Good Luck.

All the best.
Regards
Mick Jones.
Author.

Mick has cut his teeth on the front line of the dating battlefields. After many wounds and scars, he now has consistent success! You can too, to sign up to his newsletter, subscribe box is on our home page at;
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Are you over the age of 35 and looking for a life partner? Do you want a committed relationship rather than a fling?

Most clients come to coaching looking for a permament, lasting relationship, but are confused about the conflicting messages they receive from dating partners.

There are questions you can ask and signs that you can look for that will tell you if a man is serious about love.

What are the questions you should ask?

Very early in the dating relationship, you need to ask the person what they want and how they envision their life in the future. Most people will tell you the truth. If someone says they aren’t ready for a committed relationship, believe them. If they tell you they have had multiple marriages or partners, ask what kind of personal growth venues they have sought in order to understand their behavior and patterns.

What if you meet someone on the Internet?

Lots of great people have met each other on the Internet. However, without knowing the history of someone, and without knowing their friends and family, you need a certain length of time before you really understand them. Take a year to see them with their close acquaintances and family, and go through the holidays to get a clear picture of who they are. Along with that information, ask the person about their dating and relationship history.

What are some of the warning signs that someone has no intention of ever being committed?

Unfounded jealousy is often a sign that he is doing something that he is not proud of. Other signs are, if he does not want to take you to meet his friends and family; if he does not want to talk about his work; he is always late; and if he can’t give you a commitment about what you will be doing next week.

No one is perfect nor is anyone expected to be. But how your potential love interest responds to your questions; what he does with his life; and what values he lives by, speak loudly to the commitment issue.

It is important that you understand and believe that you deserve a commitment if you want one. Women who are in committed relationships are in them because they insisted upon it. They were not willing to drift along, accepting less than what they wanted to give and have.

Meeting the love of your life takes work. Don’t give up. He’s out there. And…you don’t have to settle for a fling.

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I have decided to bring upfront this important aspect of the dating scenario - multiple choices of women that lie ahead of all of us. This should be one of your primary priority area of consideration - because it is under your control if you so decide.

There happens to be existing a bit of dichotomy in this dating game - mostly created by women themselves. For your understanding, I want to break the existing myth - women do not like men dating more than one man. Did I hear someone say - Monogamous?

So many times I have heard some one say something on similar lines:
- This one’s made just for me.
- I knew she should be just right for me
- I know my soul mate, when I see one
- God, help me, I don’t want to lose her

The lists of such exclamations are endless. A man meets a woman, finds her extremely beautiful and desirable, and then goes and spoils it all by idolizing her. He instantly puts her on a pedestal and from then on his entire world revolves around her.

What a waste, what a mistake!

This kind of infatuation and fixation is a sure no-no for women. It kills any sense of excitement and thrill expected to exist in a budding relationship. Let me take you through a discussion, where I analyze WHY you should keep on seeing other women, even if you have your eyes fixed on one.

1. Attitude and confidence - Open other windows

When you are “fixed” or “stuck” with only one woman, you immediately shut out any buffer zone - or the comfort zone, which all of us need, in case something goes seriously wrong. In case she gets you out of her life - you spend the next few miserable months, or even years, thinking what is it that you said wrong, did wrong or hurt her unintentionally. Remember that song of the Beatles - Yesterday? You keep on longing for that single Yesterday.

Since you have pinned all your hopes, aspirations and dreams on one solitary woman, you have lost all your sense of balance and proportion. Our inherent “fear of loss” arises out of the belief that there are “no options” anymore. This is it. The moment you realize - O my God, so many women, so little time, your spirit automatically lifts up sky high. As a natural consequence, you will relax, learn to be calm and collected in your deportment. You no longer fear any one, now, isn’t that a wonderful feeling?

2. Perspective and comparison - Compare, Contrast, Consider

If you start believing that the single woman who you have selected is the end all and be all of life, how are you going to assess her unless you know some other women too? You need to draw some kind of standard parameter guidelines, by which you can weigh the attraction level and find rationality for your feelings. If you have nothing else to compare her with, how will you ever know the millions of alternative behavioral norms that even exist?

3. Perceived value - Women’ envy, Owners’ pride!

Women go for the Jones’s. Whatever the neighbor (in this case read it as other women) has, I must have it too. Right from jewellery, clothes, perfume to men! A man who is popular, talked about, seen everywhere and goes around with another woman, well, what is he like, is there any chance for me? Make a beeline for him! Join the race. A man who is WANTED. Who you see at the pub is ordinary, within reach. The “unconquered” triggers the killer instinct.

4. The Obsessive Self-destruct - Killing You Softly

Any sort of compulsion results in hasty, unrealistic and destructive decisions. The moment the world of choices open up, you automatically cease to show any compulsive behavior. The essence of this message is that you see and date as many women as there are available, till you meet the most promising one and it should be YOU who take the final call and NOT the woman!

5. Don’t let her feel “tied” down too early

Women hate to be treated exclusively right from the word go. Even if your intention is a temporary liaison, she gets a wrong signal. She immediately concludes that you are intent on a serious monogamous relationship. Now her pace and sense of rhythm does not allow this. The whole episode then becomes full of disharmony.

So the take home is message is this: Keep your options open. Keep all windows open. Date as many women as you like, more so, if you have located the woman of your dreams. Do not over-indulge or spoil everything by idolizing her. To keep her interests alive, see other women. It pays, both in the short and long run.

This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright.

Joshua Goh is dating & relationship expert. His desire is to motivate and support single men, women and couples to overcome the obstacles preventing them from attaining the loving relationships and lives they really want. For more information on up-to-date dating reviews and practical online dating tips & tricks, please visit Cupidwave.com.

Online dating has started as a last resort of the social misfit, to one of the most active methods to meet people. For those people out there who have busy lives or may be dealing with a lot of shyness issues, you should take a look at online resources as an excellent tool to expand your dating circle.

You need to determine your current dating goal before you go any further. What is it that you want from your online interaction with the other sex?

• Friendship? Someone to talk to?
• Romance?
• A short-term or long-term relationship?
• Casual dating with many boy/girlfriends?
• Marriage?

After determining your current goals, you must take action accordingly.

Your first action should be writing a personal ad to make your profile shine:

• Be creative and different to spark the interest of the other sex.
• Never look like you need to be approved in your ad or in your life.
• Start with an appealing romantic imagery and mix in some humor.
• Write your ad poetically and non-specifically. Listing out your hobbies or writing must haves is kind of suicidal in this huge sea of fishes and will only make you lose in the online dating game.

Unfortunately the game does not end here. Uploading photos of yourself is essential for a successful profile:

• Your portrait photo(first photo) is the first to be seen in your profile and is the most important, so choose it wisely.
• Do not upload pictures in which you think you look the most good looking but you look the happiest. The warmth of a smile can melt the ice of others hearts.
• Try to find pictures where you participated in interesting activities such as surfing, dancing, playing an instrument…

Now you are ready for starting enjoying the advantages of online dating but the game is still not over yet. The last and the most important action is sending emails that can make effect:

• Always include one personal item that tells the potential date that you’ve read her/his profile. Do not just drool on the picture.
• Be funny, creative, different, challenging her/his sensibilities and approachable.
• Remember some profiles are getting hundreds of emails everyday, so this is the area you must sparkle. So always send custom-written letters. Never try the copy-paste approach.
• If he/she replies to you, you’ve already started progress, do not wait too long to take the relationship to the next level to offline dating or somebody else will.

You must keep in mind that dating is not an easy game and needs hard work, even years of loving relationships need it. Online dating is no different and needs determination and commitment.

So the point is: Online dating will work for you, if you make it work for you.

Cenk Butunley is the founder of MyBestDate, an Online Dating company serving internationally. He has specialized in software engineering since 1998, including three years as a Senior Developer for Bromcom Computers Plc., a software publishing company.

Love is a wide variety of beliefs. When I was young, all I wanted was to fall in love, get married, have children, and live the all American dream. “You know, the white picket fence and nice home, neighborhood, etc..”

YOU really believe in your head this is what will happen for you. Boy, does LIFE throw you some curves. I believe if you have children, they should not be brought up thinking this is how life really is, with all picket fences and such. Life is hard. You get what you work for. It is just not handed to you on a silver platter. Even people with all the money in the world can build a picket fence, but, it doesn’t mean they can buy True Love.

True love comes from the heart and you can only hope that life sends you that one special someone, that is meant just for you.

Even when you find that special someone, don’t think LIFE is a barrel of fun. It has alot of up and downs, good and bad, sickness and health. You are with this person for life, hopefully. They can tend to get on your nerves every once and awhile. Prepare yourself. “Really!!”

Think before you leap. “That is my two cents on the matter!”
Thank you for listening and reading my article.

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