Looking for Love?
How many people go through life feeling that they are lonely or unloved. Even married people go through stages where they feel that they are in this sort of relationship, some have never been in a long term relationship. These people try to tell you that they are happy being alone, but you get to a point in your life where you want someone to share your life with.
I have know people who hop in and out of relationships saying that it wasn’t what they were looking for. Only realizing late in life that what they were looking for was unrealistic, they were looking for the type of relationship that you see in the movies or on TV. They come to realize too late in life that there was one person who they thought wasn’t right for them, who with hindsight was exactly what they were looking for.
You can look all over the world, all of your life, for that someone special, and usually when it is too late, you discover that the one you were looking for was right beside you all of the time. My brother, for example, was married at an early age, he now has been married and divorced 4 times, and lived with another 3 women, all of whom were very similar in looks to his first wife, but not at understanding as her.
To make a blossoming relationship work and to keep it blossoming you have to continue to make the effort and even increase your efforts. Let me use this analogy. If you buy a business, you will work at it day and night to make it a success. Once you reduce your efforts the business will fail very quickly. The same goes for a relationship, no relationship will last without the effort.
I kept asking him, if he wasn’t happy with his first wife, why did all of his others look so much like her. Even his Asian wives and girlfriends had a striking resemblance to his first wife, who was Caucasian.
An Asian woman treats her man like he is a king. She will work, she won’t sit around the house and do nothing like many other women do. She will send money back to her family, that is her obligation, but she will earn that money.
Love is something that comes from within, you have to give it before you get it. Many times I have heard of people go out and looking for the love that they feel is missing from their lives; they never find it. Sometimes you have to stop looking for love and get on with your life, if you are an open and accepting person the love with find you, you don’t have to go out looking for it.
How many people do you know who have left someone because they thought that they weren’t in love, or because they thought that it wasn’t the relationship that they were looking for only to realize when it was too late that the one they left was the one for them. You don’t always know what you have got until it is gone.
These girls in the main are or can be very nice girls, but they are looking for a way out of poverty. They will do and say anything to marry someone who will take them out of Asia. Sure they will look after you, as long as you are good to them, and you can come to love each other. But they don’t say “love you short time” for nothing, they will love you as long as you are there or as long as your money lasts.

Posted December 14, 2008
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